Tomer
Student Transition Edition

Private cognitive scaffolding for students moving into college, training, and work.

James Jurney  ·  June 2026

Why I built this

I built Tomer for my family. I think it can help your students.

Several of the people I love most live with the kind of cognitive and executive-function challenges your students navigate every day — the distance between knowing what to do and being able to start, and the things that slip when no one's there to catch them.

I'd been building proactive software for another purpose, and realized it could meet that gap directly: support that reaches out at the right moment, instead of waiting to be found.

I made it for the people in my life. I think it can help the students in yours.

— James

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The transition cliff

In high school, the scaffolding is everywhere. The day after graduation, it's gone.

Inside high school

Support comes to the student

  • IEPs and 504s
  • Case managers and resource rooms
  • Daily check-ins and built-in structure
  • A parent, a teacher who notices
After graduation

The student has to come to the support

  • College, training, or work — with far less structure
  • Help comes only if they ask — on time, in the right place, on their own
  • Most of the scaffolding is simply gone

We expect students to master self-advocacy precisely when the scaffolding of school disappears.

94%17%
get learning-disability accommodations in high school — only 17% still do in college
1 in 4
young adults with LD have not yet reached a postsecondary credential
NCLD & WestEd, State of Learning Disabilities: Navigating the Transition to Adulthood (2024), and NCLD K–12→postsecondary accommodation data. Methodology & caveats in appendix.
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Why the tools haven't worked

Every tool they've tried waits to be opened.

Planners & reminders
only help if they remember to check
ADHD apps
assume a system kept up daily
AI assistants
help only if they think to ask
Inbox tools
make the inbox faster — not the follow-through

Initiation is the barrier. A tool that waits to be opened fails exactly where students need help most.

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What Tomer does differently

Tomer doesn't wait to be asked. It reaches out first.

Tomer connects to the ordinary signals of a student's life — email, calendar, messages — and turns them into a gentle, well-timed nudge before the deadline is missed or the commitment forgotten. It's the part of the scaffolding that used to be a person, made portable into adulthood.

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“You told your advisor you'd send the housing form. It's about 10 minutes — want to knock it out while you're thinking about it?”

It meets students where they already are — no new app to remember to open
PhoneBrowserDiscord SMSDesktopWatch context
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Scaffolding in action

What a week looks like with Tomer — whichever way the student is headed.

Heading to college
A financial-aid deadline buried in email #47 → Tomer surfaces the one due Friday.
A professor's “see me” email → Tomer drafts a reply and holds a time.
Four hours of sleep → Tomer moves the hard task and protects the morning.
Heading into work
An interview you meant to follow up on → Tomer nudges with a ready draft.
A shifting schedule and a certification deadline → Tomer keeps the thread.
A manager's message → surfaced before it slips.

Tomer works from the signals a student already has — email, calendar, messages, what they tell it, and sleep from a connected wearable. It is not watching the screen over their shoulder.

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The dependence question, answered

A scaffold is meant to come down. So is this one.

You already practice gradual release of responsibility. Tomer is built on the same principle: it externalizes executive function when a student needs it most, then steps back as they build their own routines, self-advocacy, and confidence. Still there — just fewer nudges.

The goal isn't a student who depends on Tomer. It's a student who leaned on it for a while — and then stood on their own.

heavy support
lighter
student stands

support steps back as independence grows

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Built for the barrier, not the label

It targets executive function — not a diagnosis.

The functions Tomer supports
InitiationWorking memory PrioritizationTime Follow-through

Executive-function challenges cut across ADHD, dyslexia, autism, and more — and they have little to do with how capable a student is. Tomer supports the function, not a label.

Population profiles
ADHD — live todayAutism — adaptive profile in progress Dyslexia & dysgraphia — on the roadmap
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For your team, too

It carries some of the scaffolding you already provide — into the moments you can't be there.

You can't text every senior at 7pm to start the essay, or check in over the summer between graduation and orientation. Tomer can carry the same kind of gentle prompt into those moments, within guardrails you help define. It doesn't replace the relationship. It extends your reach to the hours and days you were never able to cover.

One line to hold onto: Tomer supports the student — it is not a monitoring dashboard, and not surveillance of them.
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Privacy by design — WhoDis

The AI doesn't know who your student is.
Or their family. Or you.

Real identity — kept isolated
Jordan Ellis
jordan@school.edu
+ the people he messages — his teacher, his mom
WhoDis
boundary
What the AI sees + what's in the database
Marcus Vance
user_a7f3@tomer.work
+ consistent stand-ins for them, too
The AI, reasoning about the stand-in: “Marcus has a draft due Friday — let's help him take the first step.”  A rich, useful understanding — of a student it can't identify.
Identity separation

Tomer swaps identifying details — your student's, and the family, teachers, and friends in their messages — for consistent, realistic stand-ins before anything reaches the AI.

Rich reasoning, real privacy

The AI builds a genuinely useful picture of “Marcus” — while the real identities stay isolated, completely separated from the data it reasons over.

District-ready

Removing identifiers at the boundary lowers the district's data-exposure risk — a real asset in your FERPA and state student-data-privacy review.

WhoDis separates real identity from the AI reasoning layer by design. It complements — it does not replace — your district's consent, retention, and FERPA / state student-data-privacy law / COPPA review. WhoDis is patent-pending.

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Honest about the lines

Where it fits — and the lines we hold.

Where it fits
  • Transition planning & work-based learning
  • Advisory, study-skills, EF coaching
  • Senior-year independence
  • The summer gap before college or a job starts
  • Postsecondary & workforce readiness

An optional scaffold that complements your work.

What Tomer does not do
  • Diagnose, treat, or label a student
  • Make IEP / 504, eligibility, accommodation, grading, or disciplinary decisions
  • Take autonomous action in a pilot — the student approves first
  • Act as a crisis service
  • Serve as a monitoring dashboard for staff

Tomer's outputs are informational — an optional support, never a clinical, eligibility, or accommodation judgment.

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A working product, not a concept Email & calendar triage WhoDis privacy layer running today A pilot can start with synthetic data

A small, low-risk pilot — and we learn together.

Phase 0

Educator sandbox

Your staff explore the flows with demo scenarios. No student data.

Phase 1

Classroom visit

I present to your students directly, in their language.

Phase 2

Opt-in student pilot

A small cohort (≈8–15, grade 11–12 / transition), ~6 weeks, WhoDis on, nothing sent without approval.

Consent- and FERPA-aware: scope and safeguards are set with your team and families first. Student assent plus guardian consent where required, minimal data to start. No cost for the pilot.

Tomer's proactive cognitive-assistance architecture and its WhoDis privacy layer are patent-pending.

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The ask

Two things I'd love.

1 · Present to a class

Let me come talk with one or more of your classes — to your students directly.

2 · Explore a pilot

Let's see whether a small, opt-in pilot fits your program. Either is a great place to start.

James Jurney  ·  james@tomer.work  ·  +1 (917) 653-3391  ·  tomer.work

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Tomer

A guardian for the brain you have.

Tomer is cognitive assistance software, not a medical device. It does not diagnose or treat any condition and is not a crisis service. Its outputs are informational and are not a substitute for professional evaluation.

Appendix

For the administrator & privacy conversation

Supporting detail — privacy posture, IEP/504 fit, pilot design, and the data behind the numbers.

Appendix · A1

Areas a transition team may want to observe

Tomer is an optional scaffold that complements transition and IEP/504 work. It does not generate eligibility evidence, make accommodation decisions, or monitor students for staff.

Organization

Turning scattered school and life signals into a short, clear set of next steps.

Self-advocacy practice

Helping draft the hard message — “can you clarify the deadline?” — that the student approves and sends.

Time & follow-through

Proactive, well-timed nudges that support moving from intention to action.

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Appendix · A2

Privacy & data posture

Review surfaces we expect schools to want
  • FERPA & PPRA (U.S. Dept. of Education, Student Privacy Policy Office)
  • COPPA (FTC) where students under 13 are involved
  • Your state's student-data-privacy law (e.g., NY Ed-Law §2-d; many states use SDPC data-privacy agreements)
  • IDEA assistive-technology guidance, if a school later considers Tomer inside a plan
How we'd approach a pilot
  • WhoDis reduces identifier exposure before AI reasoning — it complements, does not replace, the above
  • Data minimization: collect the least needed, start small
  • Student assent + guardian consent where required
  • Clear retention & deletion; a data-privacy agreement if we proceed
  • No autonomous outreach in pilot — human approval first

This is not legal advice; it identifies the review paths a district will expect. We work to your process, not around it.

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Appendix · A3

Pilot guardrails & what we'd learn together

Guardrails
  • Human approval before any outward action
  • Source-linked suggestions — the student can see why
  • Honest “I'm not sure” and clarification states
  • No clinical, crisis, grading, eligibility, or disciplinary role
What we'd measure (qualitative-first)
  • Reduction in “what do I do next?” friction
  • Commitments correctly surfaced
  • Approve / reject rate of Tomer's suggestions
  • Staff minutes saved per student per week
  • Student & educator feedback — and zero privacy incidents

The goal is feedback, fit, and safety — not a procurement request.

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Appendix · A4

The numbers — sources & caveats

On Slide 3
  • 94% → 17% receive LD accommodations in K–12 vs. postsecondary — NCLD, Understand the Issues (2024). The 17% postsecondary figure traces to federal data; confirm base year before external citation.
  • More than 1 in 4 (21% never attended + 7% left without finishing) — NCLD & WestEd, State of LD: Navigating the Transition to Adulthood (2024). Opt-in online panel, n=1,283, weighted, self-reported LD, ages 18–24; a derived sum, not a single federal figure.
Federal longitudinal context (backup)
  • 4-year college enrollment: 21% (LD) vs. 40% (peers) — NLTS2 / NCSER 2011-3005 (2009 cohort).
  • Completion among those enrolled: 41% (LD) vs. 53% (peers) — NLTS2 / NCSER 2011-3005.
  • Self-determination in the final HS year predicts better employment & wages a year out — Wehmeyer & Schwartz (1997).
  • Broader (all-disability, not LD-specific): employment ~23% vs. ~65% (BLS, persons with a disability); HS graduation 71% vs. 87% (NCES 2021–22).

LD-specific figures are labeled as such; disability-wide figures are flagged and used only for broad context. Full source list on file.

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